Last night, on my way home from Vermont, I had the privilege of listening to a number of eulogies—they were all for the same person. The church had brilliantly recorded the whole memorial service, so I was able to watch as each member of Bob’s family shared their fondest memories from his 90 years on earth. Although he had articulated, in no uncertain terms, he would have like to have live longer, he also expressed that he had a great life and that, “God owes me nothing, I’ve had every blessing!”

We should all be listening to eulogies—they remind us how life is supposed to be lived. They remind us what life is really about and that we are supposed to be good people. We forget that sometimes. I definitely forget that sometimes. Eulogies always remind us that life is short, so it’s really important to focus on what’s actually important. Eulogies also remind me, indirectly, of what’s not important, which is usually what I am focused on at the time.

Here are some key takeaways from Bob’s well-lived life, in no particular order. Always have a positive mental attitude. Be kind. Ask other, “What can I do for you?” Make family your priority. Hold no prejudices. Live in the moment. Everyone is important—treat them as such. Travel. Be a collector of experiences, not things. Believe in yourself. Believe in and help others. Be grateful for what you have. And make sure you have enough gas in the car.

If you can do all of this, Bob would likely say, “You’re going to have a great life!” Thank you, Bob. We all needed to hear these words.

Let’s GO! We got this!

Beth